wholeheartedsuggestions:

good luck to anyone who struggles around the holidays. sending some love.

(via quiet-bpd-mess)

avpdkaneki:

im here for alcoholics

im here for alcoholics who drink to ease anxiety

im here for alcoholics with bpd who started drinking on impulse and now they can’t stop

im here for alcoholics who are minors and don’t have their alcoholism taken seriously because they’re “too young”

im here for alcoholics who are students and have their alcoholism brushed off because “all students drink a lot”

im here for lgbt alcoholics who can’t access safe spaces because they tend to involve alcohol

im here for alcoholics who are victims of trauma and abuse

im here for alcoholics who drink because of any mental illness

im here for alcoholics with alcoholic parents, siblings, and other family members

im here for alcoholics in codependent relationships

because the whole existance of alcoholism can be filled with so much guilt and shame. because it can make you feel so alone

im here for alcoholics

softbutchtashayar:

softbutchtashayar:

softbutchtashayar:

So I know that with the holidays some people gotta deal with shitty family or maybe don’t have a family so I’m just gonna say…

I can be your butch lesbian dad.

My skills in this department include:

1. Good at encouragement and compliments
2. Will put your drawings on my fridge
3. Will attend all your sports games and recitals; very good at clapping and using an air horn to show other parents that I am the Most Supportive
4. Always telling my coworkers how proud I am of you and of all the amazing things you do
5. Only 5'5", very unimposing and approachable
6. Will let you have as many pets as you want
7. Good at puns; once got booted from three different chat groups in the span of half an hour for pie puns
8. Will never fail to tell you how much I love you and how glad I am to be your dad

I’m so proud of you, kiddo!

With Father’s Day coming up, I would like to once again offer my services as a lesbian dad. I have added/remembered a few other skills within my repertoire:

• Tacky shirts for all occasions
• Will call you by nicknames such as “Sport”, “Kiddo”, “Champ”, “Buddy”, “Pumpkin”, “Buckeroo”, “Sonny”, “Sweetie”, or whatever you may prefer
• If you want I can give your dates the Dad Look™ whilst chopping fruit with my great axe but then instead of giving them the Dad Talk™ I offer them some light refreshments (fruit salad) and ask them what they like to do (because you’re not my POSSESSION, why the fuck would I not trust your judgement? But I absolutely want to get to know the important people in your life!)
• I will respect your gender and sexuality no matter what. 10/10 would take you to pride (probably while wearing a tacky rainbow “proudest lesbian dad” t-shirt)
• I sing really loudly in the car (I know a lot of showtunes and rock ballads) and you are welcome either join in the singing or you can sit in your seat saying “uuuhhhggg you’re so EMBARASSING”. both of these reactions add to my enjoyment of driving with you
• I will Always dance to the boppy 70’s music they play in the supermarket and my dance moves are Very Bad
• If you want I can make a big show of leaping to my feet and saying, panicked, “YOU’RE NOT LEAVING DRESSED LIKE T H A T” so that you think I’m about to make you change but, no, I’m actually just grabbing the perfect accessory to match your shirt and then I give you a little kiss on the forehead and tell you to have a fun night
• I am Small (only 5'5", very unimposing) but my heart is Big and my shoulders are good for crying on, should you need them
• If you have goals and dreams and things you’re passionate about, I’ll always make time to hear them, and I’ll always encourage you to live your best life

Remember, Lesbian Dad loves you and wants you to have a great Father’s Day!!

Merry Christmas and Happy Holidays from your local Lesbian Dad!!! ☃️🎅🎁

❤💚🎄❤💚 You know I’m always so grateful to have you all, kids!!! Peace and joy and happiness be yours, and may the new year bring even more!! ❤💚🎄❤💚

(via thesleepybabesclub)

the-unlucky-thirteen:

I’m unsure whether I feel disconnected from the world or never learned how to feel connected to begin with

disabilityhealth:

Don’t be a “respect is earned not given” kind of person

Be a “respect is given unless proven undeserved” kind of person

(via vethox)

deadpoolsbottombitch:

Shoutout to the people who:

-have symptoms that aren’t visible to others

-are able to function even while in extreme pain

-hide their illness well

-who don’t “seem sick”

-who have flareups at night or other times when no one else sees

-fight a daily battle that others can’t see

-feel like they’re making too big of a deal out of their illness because “it could be worse!”

I see you out there, I feel you, you’re awesome.

(via bpd-whoami)

just-shower-thoughts:

Squirrels are just rats that learned parkour

bipolstar:

Diagnosis??? More like diagNOsis haha am I right I don’t want this illness someone help

(via looney-to0ns)

mens-rights-activia:

mens-rights-activia:

The experiences of conventionally attractive people and conventionally unattractive people can be so jarringly different and it really deserves some conversation. But I hate how the only mention of this comes from incels or anti-feminists or other right aligned losers with not an ounce of nuance in their bones lmaooo

Like, your physical attractiveness can shape not just your interpersonal experiences but also real tangible things such as but no limited to whether or not you get a job or being believed as a victim or what kind of roles you can get as an actor or perhaps the length of a sentence or how much help is offered to you in a time of need etc. etc.

(via the-literal-cats-pyjamas)